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This article appeared in the Indianapolis Star
June 5, 2006
 
 

Forgotten no more
Monument is dedicated to 699 orphaned or abandoned children at Crown Hill

By Dan McFeely
dan.mcfeely@indystar.com

 

Buried deep in the dirt of Section 37 at Crown Hill Cemetery, young Harry Lockwood waited 108 years for a little love and respect.


The boy didn't get much of either as an abused and neglected orphan.


Harry's short life and tragic death in 1913 were all too familiar to the nearly 700 other abandoned or orphaned children also buried on the same shady, sloping hill, without gravestones, over an 88-year period.
In this historic Northside cemetery -- where a U.S. president, three vice presidents, Booth Tarkington, James Whitcomb Riley and Eli Lilly are buried -- these children had long been forgotten.


Until now.


On Sunday, the Care for Kids Foundation -- with help from Rupert Boneham and U.S. Rep. Dan Burton, R-Ind. -- unveiled the Hearts Remembered Memorial in honor of 699 children buried on what is called Community Hill.


The charitable foundation that supports vulnerable children through a variety of agencies raised $30,000 for the memorial and a ceremony fit for the kind of people these children never had the chance to become.
With more than 300 people watching, the memorial was unveiled to the sounds of the Indianapolis Children's Choir. A flock of white doves was released as the children sang. "If we don't remember what happened to our kids in the past, then we won't care about what happens to them in the future. And today's kids will be doomed," said Boneham, who put some of his winnings from the show "Survivor" toward his own Indianapolis-based program to help children.


The new memorial consists of three black granite monoliths. A 9-foot center stone features a 30-inch cut circle with a bronze sculpture of two children arm in arm. It's flanked by two 5-foot stones, upon which are inscribed the names of the 699 children, whose identities were revealed after months of research into old records.
The 5-ton memorial will become one of Crown Hill's 60-plus key attractions, noted on maps handed out to an estimated 10,000 visitors each year. The children were buried there from 1892 to 1980, and they came from four community agencies, including the now-defunct "Home for Friendless Colored Children," the "Indianapolis Children's Asylum," the "Board of Children's Guardians" and the "Children's Bureau." Slightly more than half of the 699 buried on the hill were boys -- about a third were black. Many came from broken homes, in which fathers died or deserted their families and mothers turned to prostitution to make ends meet. They fell victim to heart ailments and diseases such as tuberculosis. Some simply starved to death. And once they were turned over to the orphanage, they often were separated from their brothers and sisters.

 

Harry's story

 

Harry Lockwood was among those waiting for a family. Born Sept. 2, 1898, Harry had been raised in what social workers called a filthy home. His mother had been a prostitute, and he was classified as illegitimate when he entered the orphanage in 1910 at the age of 12. In July of that year, he was placed with a family from Danville, who seemed more interested in adopting a worker for the farm. According to Guardian Home records, Harry "was returned when he refused to pull a few weeds and said he did not have to work." He reportedly asked his new family whether they thought he was a horse, rather than a child. A month later, he was placed with a different family in Rush County, and things seemed to be working out until he suffered an appendicitis attack about three years later. After a minor operation to drain fluid from his side, doctors told his new family that Harry needed to have a second operation to remove the appendix, but they refused to pay. In April 1913, the doctor visited Harry again, and this time he insisted that an operation was necessary to save the boy's life. So Harry was brought back to Indianapolis and admitted to City Hospital. But it was too late. After months of neglecting the condition, Harry died in his hospital bed Aug. 10, 1913, a few weeks shy of his 15th birthday.


He was buried at Crown Hill Cemetery two days later.

 

Memories won't fade

 

Burton spoke Sunday of his experience as a young boy in an orphanage in the 1950s. He was a temporary resident in the Children's Guardian Home after his father tried to kill his mother, he said. Burton said he does not remember how long he was in the home. His mother had fled to another state, and his father ultimately went to prison.
Still, he stayed long enough to build memories that will never go away.


"I can still remember the faces of those kids," Burton said, "and the way they would all look with anticipation whenever people came in looking for a kid to adopt."


Mike Thierwechter, the president of Care for Kids, said the problem of neglected and abandoned kids remains today.
"The children at Crown Hill are only a fraction of the forgotten children in the United States," Thierwechter said. "Memorializing them is not only the right thing to do; it reminds us just how precious the lives of our children were yesterday and are still today."
Nationwide, 1,356 children died in 2000 due to child maltreatment, according to Prevent Child Abuse America. And more than 900,000 children were reported abused in 2003, according to the federal government, although experts say thousands of other abuse cases go unreported.

 

An intern's passion

 

Crown Hill is the nation's third-largest nongovernment cemetery with 555 acres and more than 190,000 graves. It conducts more than 1,200 burials each year. In addition to President Benjamin Harrison and other political notables, the cemetery -- which offers public tours of its grounds -- is home to the remains of bank robber John Dillinger.
Crown Hill long had a policy of providing free burial space for orphans and impoverished children. But it wasn't until a college intern started digging into old cemetery records four years ago that the extent of the burials in Section 37 came to light.
Anna Sturgeon -- who has since married and now works in Columbus, Ind. -- was an IUPUI student working with the Marion County Children's Guardian Home. Care for Kids stumbled upon an old deed for some ground at Crown Hill and asked Sturgeon to look into the matter.
"She found about 67 children in unmarked graves from the Guardian Home," Thierwechter said. "And then the more she dug, the more she found."
Sturgeon, who could not be reached for comment for this story, told The Indianapolis Star in a 2003 interview that she compiled the list by scouring through pages of old records and reels of microfilm, looking at handwritten records of the lives of the forgotten children.
At the end of Sunday's ceremony, those present formed a long line up Community Hill to place a flower at the base of the memorial, while children took turns reading off the names of the deceased.

 

"Until we recognize who these children are, they cannot become angels," Thierwechter said. "Today we have 699 new angels."

Some of the children's stories


Here are a few of the stories from the 699 abused, neglected and sick children buried in unmarked graves at Crown Hill Cemetery, according to records found and restored by the Children's Guardian Home:

Paul Coleman, 58 days old, died Oct. 12, 1898
Paul Coleman's father deserted the family before his birth, and two weeks later -- in an era when few women worked -- his mother abandoned him, too. He was given to the Orphan's Asylum but spent his last days at Eleanor Hospital, suffering from "sore eyes." He died of pulmonary congestion.

James Webb, 78 days old, died Nov. 19, 1901
Nobody wanted James. His father was unknown, and his mother, Nina, wanted nothing to do with him. "Mother did not know who father was, had no name for the baby, and did not know the sex of the child," records show. A local doctor placed James in the orphanage for fear that his mom would try to kill the baby. James died anyway, of starvation.

Emil Staffe, 10 months old, died April 30, 1902
Emil's mother, Nellie Blank, was an underage girl whose much older German-born boyfriend was charged with criminal seduction after she showed up "covered in vermin" and pregnant. She gave her first child, Julius, up for adoption before being ordered to stay in a convent. Nellie managed to escape, however, and ran off to Shelbyville to marry her boyfriend, Alfred Staffe. But after she gave birth to her second son (Emil), Staffe abandoned them and left the city. Julius was lucky. He was adopted in 1904. But Emil, described as "thoroughly diseased," died before his first birthday.

Mary Elizabeth Craig, Age 7, died Dec. 9, 1920
Mary was one of five children living with their widowed father, a vault cleaner who drank too much and kept a filthy home. In 1916, the county removed the children from their home, but because Mary needed her tonsils removed, she was separated from her brothers and sisters. Eventually she was placed with the Collier family in Pierceton, where she did well. In September 1920, Mary came down with a nasty cough. Two months later, she was diagnosed with tuberculosis and was sent to a sanitarium. On Nov. 28, 1920, she was allowed a visit by two of her siblings, who brought fruit and a baby doll on their final visit. Less than two weeks later, she died.

Thomas Riley, Age 6, died May 21, 1925
Thomas was a little runner with sticky fingers. Named for his father, he was 4 years old when he was removed from his home (for unknown reasons) and placed in an orphanage. After running away once, he was placed with a woman who returned the boy after he stole a bracelet. The next day, he ran away again but was caught by police after stealing a tricycle. After a short stay in detention, he was taken in by a man who brought Thomas back after he stole a wagon. In April 1925, he was locked up in an institution, where he contracted typhoid fever. After 15 days in the hospital, he died.

 

Hearts Remembered

Honoring the forgotten children

This video ran for almost a year

on public television.

This article appeared in Nuvo News

Written by Laura McPhee

 

 

     Crown Hill Cemetery lies just north of downtown Indianapolis, and for nearly 150 years it has been both a place of rest and refuge for the city’s residents. Across more than 500 acres, the sprawling hills and lush landscape have provided a quiet oasis of forgotten beauty for both the living and the dead since its dedication in June of 1864.

Over the past century and a half, the graves of poets, presidents, playwrights and gangsters have given the cemetery its caché as a symbol of Indiana’s historic past, especially those buried atop the now prestigious “Crown Hill,” the highest geographic point in the city and the county. With its panoramic views and its social prestige, it seems the closer an individual is buried to the peak of Crown Hill, the closer he or she is to immortality — if not closer to heaven. The large headstones will at least guarantee the living go on remembering these lives and their legacies for countless generations to come.

 

In sharp contrast to the names of Riley, Harrison, Tarkington, Ayres, Eiteljorg, Kittle, Tutweiller and Irsay that mark the most impressive tombs on Crown Hill proper, there is a much smaller, much easier to overlook plot of land known as “Community Hill.” These graves tell a different type of story about our Hoosier past — one of poverty, neglect and social amnesia; stories most of us don’t know or don’t want to know. Community Hill is where the city’s indigents, widows and orphans have been unceremoniously buried for more than a century. In most cases, these lives and histories have been omitted from history, if not erased.

 

Among those buried on Community Hill are nearly 700 children in unmarked graves. These are the city’s orphans — the children no one wanted. They were abandoned and neglected by their parents, social services and the community at large while they were alive. The circumstances that led to their deaths have been and continue to be ignored, meaning they have also been abandoned and neglected by subsequent generations. To reclaim these children from oblivion requires an understanding not just about the past, but also of the present. As the saying goes, those who don’t know the past are doomed to repeat it.

 

Forgotten deeds


The children buried in the community plot at Crown Hill died while in the care of the city’s three public orphanages — the Indianapolis Children’s Asylum, the Board of Children’s Guardians Home and the Asylum for Friendless Colored Children — between 1892 and 1980. Slightly more than half of the 699 buried on the hill were boys, two-thirds of the children were white and their ages ranged from only a few months to 15 years old.

While Crown Hill long had a policy of providing free burial space for orphans and impoverished children, their graves were unmarked. It wasn’t until an IUPUI intern, Anna Sturgeon, was asked by the Marion County Children’s Guardian Home to investigate an old deed for some ground the Home owned at Crown Hill several years ago that the graves were discovered.

 

“She found about 67 children in unmarked graves from the Guardian Home,” explains Michael Thierwechter, president of Care for Kids, a not-for-profit organization working at the time to help raise funds for much-needed renovations at the aging Children’s Guardian Home facility. “And then the more she dug, the more she found.” At the end of her digging, Sturgeon had compiled a list of nearly 700 forgotten children by scouring through the pages of handwritten records in boxes at the Guardian Home — all of whom had died between 1892 and 1980 and been buried in unmarked graves at Crown Hill.

 

Most of the records for the children revealed little about the circumstances that led to their coming to the city’s various orphanages. Until the end of the 19th century, Indianapolis had both workhouses and poorhouses, and many of the children were taken from the families who found themselves in these dire circumstances.

According to the minutes of an 1867 “Widows and Orphans Friends’ Society” oversight meeting, “The inmates of the [orphanages] come from the streets, from the abodes of poverty and wretchedness.” In keeping with their purpose, the society aimed to “keep dependent children out of local poorhouses, away from adult paupers and Roman Catholics — a problem with which reform societies across the North are dealing with in this difficult era.”

An alarming number of children did not survive their stays at the city’s orphanages. While most were certainly brought to the institutions in ill health, many more died from neglect, maltreatment and poor nutrition during their stay.

In 1909, during a conference in Washington, D.C., on the social responsibility towards these dependent children, the Indianapolis Orphan’s Asylum reported that of the 882 infants that had been admitted over the previous 10 years, 345 had died while in custody (nearly 40 percent). In the records from the conference, someone wrote in the margins “formaldehyde in the milk is presumed to have been the cause of high death rates during the early years.”

Once the mass burial site of the Indianapolis orphans was discovered by Sturgeon, plans were put in place almost immediately for some type of memorial. “We quickly abandoned the notion of selling the land at Crown Hill,” says Kent Baker, Care for Kids board member. “We knew we would have to raise money elsewhere for the needed renovations of the Home. It became clear that we had to find a way to memorialize the individual lives of these children.”

 

Remembering the children


More than 100 years after the first children were placed in these unmarked graves, the Hearts Remembered Memorial, unveiled during a ceremony on June 4, 2006, finally pays the proper recognition to the forgotten children who died from neglect, maltreatment and disease.

The memorial itself, comprised of three black granite monoliths, is reminiscent of the Vietnam memorial in Washington, D.C. The 9-foot center stone features a cut circle housing a bronze sculpture of a boy and a girl, hand-in-hand, and is flanked on either side by 5-foot complementary stones engraved with the names of the 699 children.

 

“Memorializing these forgotten children is not only the right thing to do, it also helps remind us how precious the lives of our children are,” Thierwechter says. “By finally recognizing the lives of these children, we hope to encourage people to work toward protecting all children. That’s truly what Hearts Remembered is about — honoring the innocent lives lost and reminding everyone to love and nurture all children.”

 

Indentured servitude


After the 1909 White House Conference on Dependent Children, child care experts increased their advocacy of preserving the family unit, or at least keeping mothers with their children, rather than removing the children from their homes and placing them in institutions. As a result, states began to provide pensions for mothers so that they could keep their children with them even in difficult financial times.

Then, in 1935, the Aid to Dependent Children provision of the Social Security Act made money available for mothers in order to keep their families together. Additionally, leaders in child care had come to believe that orphanages were not the answer for vulnerable children. They felt that institutions could not meet the needs of the individual child with proven success.

 

Meta Gruner, director of the Indiana Children’s Bureau at the time, echoed these sentiments as she set the stage for the closing of the Indianapolis Orphans Asylum in 1941. “I think we have progressed beyond … food, shelter and clothing as substitutes for what a child has lost in his own home,” she wrote.

Today, the majority of children who are unable to live with one or both of their parents are placed in what has become known as foster care. The intention is to find substitute homes for the children that will in some way replicate a loving and safe environment for them to grow up in.

 

Foster care in America began as a rather unusual and controversial social experiment as early as 1853, when the children of immigrants throughout New York City’s slums were routinely rounded up by the authorities and placed on what became known as Orphan Trains. Though the children were supposed to come from homes without parents, history later revealed that a large number of children were simply taken from their homes in an effort to eradicate, or at the very least reduce, the immigrant population. Orphan Trains were literally railroad cars filled with children from the East who were then taken West. The trains stopped at more than 45 states across the country, as well as Mexico and Canada. Prospective families took the children in as indentured servants. Indiana received the greatest number of the estimated 250,000 children who were placed on the trains.

 

Indentured servitude was also an option for children placed in Indianapolis’ orphanages. Each year a large number of children were bound over through a legal contract between the asylums and outside parties who agreed to take them in and raise, feed and educate them in exchange for their labor. In 1852, the Indiana General Assembly revised state law (Chapter 68) in order that “children may be bound to serve as apprentices for any term not extending beyond the age of 21 for males or 18 for females. If a female marries, the indenture is annulled. Apprentices older than 14 must endorse the indenture agreement. Further, superintendents of county asylums are charged with binding out such poor children as fall under their care … see[ing] that children so bound are properly treated.” The law also stipulated that the children were to receive a sum of $50 in exchange for their work when they were released from servitude.

It is unknown how many children were “bound out” as servants, or how many of these children died in their new substitute homes. Some of the children struggled in their new surroundings, and a great number ran away. But quite a few children flourished with their new families, and though records are sketchy, at least two governors, one congressman, one sheriff, two district attorneys, three county commissioners and numerous bankers, lawyers, physicians, journalists, ministers, teachers and entrepreneurs spent their youths as indentured servants in Indiana.

 

A thing of the present


While the children found in Crown Hill died between 1892 and 1980, the fact is that children continue to die needlessly every day. “The children at Crown Hill may be only a fraction of the forgotten children in the United States,” according to Michael Thierwechter. “And this problem didn’t end in 1980. The tragedy lives on today.”

For the past several years, Indiana has had the highest rate of children who die as a result of abuse and neglect in the United States, and in more than 40 percent of the deaths, there were substantiated investigations of child abuse and neglect prior to the death. Today, most children in foster care in Indiana are taken from their parents as a result of police or court action, and the overwhelming majority of those cases involve abuse of some type.

As of June 2004, the last date for which records are available, there were 11,176 Indiana children living in state custody. Nearly half were living in foster care, 11 percent were placed with a guardian and 10 percent were placed in the care of a relative. The remaining children, 32 percent, were placed in group homes, hospitals or private institutions, including orphanages. Almost half of the children who left the state’s custody that year did so because of emancipation, transfer to another agency or because they ran away. Approximately one-third of the children were permanently placed with relatives, 9 percent were reunited with their families and 3 percent were adopted.

It’s easy to think of these children as someone else’s problem. It’s easy to dismiss their abandonment and neglect as someone else’s mistake. But as the nearly 700 children buried on Community Hill have taught us, our collective actions — or inaction — always come back to haunt the living.

The grave mistakes of the past are being repeated every day that a child in Indiana goes without a home, lives without opportunity and dies without recognition that we are all responsible for their demise. They are not ghosts. They are not historical blunders. And every week in Indiana, another child dies as a result of abuse and neglect.

As the inscription on the Hearts Remembered monument at Crown Hill Cemetery reminds us, every life touches someone and no life should ever be forgotten … especially the life of a child.

 

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